casting crowns just be held

Hello,
How are you?
I hope that you're having a nice day.
How's things going?
Today I want to talk about casting crowns, and  being open to things.
The reason because when you're in the middle of a fight, you get so worn down. I'm not talking about being a victim of things,  we are all victims of things that people do to us, and the out comes are sometimes devastating.
I was on my days off, and when you have days off, you get to a point that you just want to sleep, but then you want to do somethings, and I drove my brother up the wall, because all of sudden, I had some free time, this included, free lunches, ice creams, and other things.
Which was great for him because they were free.
But  what dose it mean to be held?
When you think about it, when you see a crying child, you see a mother or father, holding that child, and to cheer it up, it's important.
But what happens if we get older and we have pain, we have baggage there, and well the mental thing of being held physically isn't there?
And I know that there's people out there that, know what I mean, all of sudden your pain comes out, when you're in fragile state, just like  antique vase, all wrapped up, and protected and then out of no where it gets dropped.
Perhaps, you're aware of how lonely you are.
How can we trust God that he is holding onto us, when all we can do is just to cry and we don't know why.
I'm reading a few books, one is Ben Carson's book on Risk, which are great.
And also a book called , ''Right people, right place right plan.'' by Jentezen Franklin,  it was a book given to my mum from my Nana.
I want to say now, that first read your bible, but if you need some practical things, this book is good, I've only just started it.
Sometimes we need books to increase our faith, and our love for God.
And reading this book along beside Ben's book, really does help.
They might seem different titles, but they work so well together.
One thing about dealing with pain, and that is, not look around and compare, it's so easy to get into that way, and think of someones perfect life.
 There is no perfect life my friends, even those who drive big fancy cars, they still have pay for them to keep running.
We can't always be running around trying to fix things, or trying to be leaders, and get promoted, we all need people who work behind the scenes, they are the true leaders, the ones that are quiet, the ones that really get people's dreams flying high.
When we care genuinely we get other people around us, and care.
So when we ask how someone is really going, we are caring after their needs.
God is there with us, even if it's returning some one's lost property, money or even their pet.
When we give out, we get so many rewards, if we do it the right way.
See if you care in the small things, we care in the big things.
It's not about a big church or even belonging to some big building, it's about over coming our ways, and no you won't drown in the process, when we lay down our pride, our ''I told you i was right'' mentality, we are coming to that place of healing, no matter who is on our team, if we do the small things right, we are working as team and not bolting like a horse full force, going ahead, and not listening, because if we listen to people, we are again putting that aside, learning to do it right, so that people don't have to come along and fix up our mistakes.
There's nothing more frustrating, that going full force, and making mistakes when if we listened on how to do it right, that would help  time and other peoples efforts.
Chloe