How do you know?

I had a friend over for afternoon tea yesterday.
It was such a lovely chat.
We talked about so many different things, that was very uplifting.
Because alot of things, in this world aren't so uplifting.
So how do we keep in the world but not of it.
Is ok to take time out for yourself?
These are the questions I have asked myself, and how does that relate to our relationships?

Sometimes we can be going around with so much on our minds, that we get into managing our lives, then our relationships, and we don't see them as our friends.
My friend, yesterday pointed out, yesterday, that when it comes to relationships, how do we know that it will work?
I am guilty of this, I say something, or pray for something, but then I give up, because I think it's a bit far fetched.
Or I'll freak people out.
My friend pointed out, that as a young women, if we met the man what or how shall we act?
Just be ourselves, and always look out about how we can help that person.
My one fear, is, because I have a mental disability, how am I going to tell the true bloke, about me?
Because it's a head injury, and because it happened when I was being born, and I walk in completeness, how it that going to effect it?
I'm quite headstrong, but I feel emotions quite easily, I'm not an walk on egg shell person, but if there's someone in need I want to make them feel better. This is on my weakness, because sometimes if that person doesn't want to feel better, you can't always wave a magic wand over them because that too is humanly impossible.
I want a Friend who can understand that, we are called by God not to sit around being lazy, because we grow poor, so we should work in our strengths.
Jesus knows our heart, and he knows the ache of loneliness, and you know what?
He's just not in the clouds being busy up there, he's down here with this holy spirit working in us.
In everything we say and do, and we are called to stick together.
We aren't so disposable as we might think, the grass is never greener on the other side.
If you're wondering if you're ever going to get there, no matter where you're heading, you will get there.
That's all from me.
Chloe